The Suffering of Being Bucin

"The truth is the key." And, "Honesty is the key." That's the main foundation from the relationship. The film titled "Bucin" (slave of love in Indonesia budak cinta) will teach us about that. Also the tendency how to go out from bucin pandemic? There are some keys, firstly, the rule number one is in the relationship the patience will make someone feels calm to love someone; cause when you calm, your heart rate in stability condition.

The story begins with four friends whose followed "Antibucin Class" (they believed the class will make someone more progress). They are Chandra Liow, Andovi da Lopez, Jovial da Lopez, and Tommy Limmm--and all actors have different character who strong here, I like it; most of them suffered bucin with their girlfriend and fiance. The level of bucin from basic to acute.  They felt bucin destroyed them so bad. In this class used the extreme method to purpose can make someone changes. "Sometimes we need the something extreme to change." Or this is just a bluff! Ha-ha.

The four men of bucin then entered to escape room. In there, they are interrogated by Vania (Susan Samah), Vania is Ph.D student in Psychology who takes the research about the human psyche in love; and the funny thing that I got, I found the epic word: "Demokrasi Gambreng (Blatant Democracy)". 

The escape room in  film "Bucin" (2020)

The reason why someone bucin is they are afraid lost the love. So, one who dominance will drive other to do anything--even it hurts themselves or other people. Man who suffers bucin will wait the partner approval and gives to many tolerance, although "the decisions that you make will affect to a lot of people." As the Jovial love story with Cilla (Kezia Aletheia), everyday, Jovial looks for the reason to love Cilla.

"I don't have feeling with her, in our fourth anniversary, she is selfie and I install the dating app. It's damn dog! ... In my heart says I want to break, but in my mind is not!"

And the other story, Tommy ever said: "Married is about two humans, isn't driven all by one partner." And it's true, because bucin, Andovi is driven by Kirana (Widika Sidmore), the peak is when Andovi presented his angry, "You are not respect my time, I have felt reluctant to pick up you!" also this dialogue, "We are deal, but you are cheat. Because you, many people loss. I can't loss in myself and other people bacause of you!"

And here, some lessons from this film:

• The question is designed for yourself, that adjusted with your condition, although all of questions seem right. Whatever you choose, if you are brave, certainly will  be the way. The example question like: love yourself first or love her/him first? 
• Love Life Live
• That's love, forgive
• First grade red color and second grade red color
• I will marry if I can buy a house. (Jovial)
• As a candidate of the head of family, I must be fast to take the decisions. (Tommy)
• If you are lie, please direct to be honest, if you are not, she/he will be more bucin.